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The height of
Meditation is perpetual orgasm. When the world falls away and all is blissful
and calm.
Our Reasons are our Excuses.
Learn
only from Experience. Trust no one else. Know stillness, don't think
about it.
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To my America,
Gay Marriage
In all people is the potential to be all people. We can all be
anything. We are all multifaceted and all of us could have been,
through tiny birth variations, been the opposite gender we happened
to be born with. It is a fine line; a line that through examination
can be removed almost completely, at least via the mental
perception. As the mind lets go, so can the body adapt to a sexual
path. I do not see the division that people imagine is there between
gay's, lesbians, and some straight religious people. I see all
groups of people, with their slightly differing preferences, all
clinging to an image that they think helps them define themselves.
And as they grow older they will all suffer as that image slowly no
longer becomes the way they can see themselves. And they will suffer
for it. (And then they'll die and be ok again. But let's not get
sidetracked.)
Both groups, all groups, choose ways to act depending on the general
glaze of acceptance and approval from random types of people, that
used their non-intentional will to get what they could approve of.
All of them seeking a mindset of happiness, and acceptance. All of
them wanting Freedom, and all of them trying to gain power to earn
it and to keep it. But can we see what we all are, beyond the
stories we think we are? Not seeing how we are like our enemy makes
a culture group of selfish people, no matter what side you are on,
and it makes pride and force meld and takeover again, and we wind up
with oppression again. People forcing other people to have comfort
like the way they know worked for them. Because it made them feel
good and valuable, until they could no longer hang on again. Within
these great masses of people that form thought bubbles of opinion
are the same selfish and ignorant tendencies that make up the whole
mass of the full society; which means, all current opinions on the
subject are likely wrong.
From my direct experience I have known women that felt that they
were men. They attempted to act like they thought men act to try and
prove they were men. But they weren't. Their act was never natural,
it was forced and over compensating, because they really wanted
people to believe what they believed. I've known men that thought
they were women, and they assumed the image, but only as a mirage.
They were not women. And they acted like men acting like unnatural
women. But they did enjoy being sexy, and the transgender women
enjoyed the image of toughness. All clinging to an image they saw
joy, or advantage, or freedom in. Usually the side of prettiness or
strength that they saw as children. Everyone just faking it, no one
what they were. Just like their condemners, pretending that they
didn't sense the fine line of a simple liberating thought that could
make them feel vulnerable. To feel that which could let them
understand what it is to take another person's freedom from them.
This clinging to the image has had effects on the individuals in the
mass group of homosexuals believing that love and affirmation comes
from marriage. When in most relationships, gay or straight or other,
there isn't love. There is a gentle and steady bending onto a person
to please another. There is a power structure. And where there is
power, bad things grow. And eventually we see them surface in many
ways, but it means nothing, it is only the proof that there was no
true love. I warn the image hungry about marriage, it will only
succeed if you try to understand why you are feeling a certain way
and why your lover feels a certain way. Only if you can care more
about someone else's right to free thought and free choice as your
own...no...more, enough to love without gain. Love, to ease the
suffering of that person you are with. Help them be genuine, without
an image to warp them. If we are concerned with the image, like all
celebrities, we will assume a persona, that is not pure. And what
you think you have to be, will be false, and you will be a slave to
yourself. I see a nation of resentment between many many married
people, a resentment stemming from each half of a relationship
believing that they are giving so much and the other half does not
appreciate it. I see the spoiled and the wanting. Generations of
Children. Gay Marriage? Why not, there's no moral penalty. There is
no hell. So, what's the difference? The world is hard and
conflicted, and the more advantages any person can have, like a
partner, like tax advantages, like more peace of mind....The Freedom
of Religion, The Pursuit of Happiness...it is all people's right to
be free from the oppression of any authority that restricts a
non-violent existence.
(Contrary to popular belief seeped in by
the 80's generation and the "W" era all humans have human rights,
not just some US citizens.)
by Philosopher Stephan Pacheco
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Stop seeking constant
gratification.
Philosophy
is a laborious ordeal.
Don't
believe everything you think.
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